Tong冬

ASSUME

2009-08-19T21:25:00.000-07:00

We always like to compare,
but how do we know that the thing is "big" or "small"?
There are many thing around us,
when we say the thing is big,
we assume it is big,
but how we grade it is big?
is it because it is bigger than the thing around us?
or it is because nothing to compare so we consider it is big?

On the other hand, how are we going to identify how clever is the person?
Can we based on IQ test?
or EQ test is more suitable?
In my opinion, assume is what we always do.
When we see a people who can speak well and score good results in the exam,
he or she is known as a clever person.
But, in realistic,
is he or she clever?
If he is good in Malaysia,
does it means he is the best in the world?

In conclusion, there are many people better than us.
There are many buildings larger and taller than our twin tower.
Thus, we should always be humble and quiet.
Listen rather than talk much much but with no point.
If want to talk, then talk something that good for others and yourself too.

The End

What is true LOVE?

2009-08-15T01:35:00.000-07:00

Many people may think that Love is a holy thing,
with love, they will be experiencing romantic, happy and successful life;
with love, everything will be settled;
with love, there will be no conflict....

But, in realistic, I had seen many sad story.
Love,
can detroy a person's future;
can destroy friendship;
can destroy morale...

LOVE will bring 2 people closer to each other,
It is a romantic, full of joyment and you may think that God had given you an angel,
who will accompany you every second, every minutes, every hour.
A person in love will do whatever things to maintain the relationship.

BUT...in reality...does LOVE means to us?
An example that I had seen is that when we feel that we own the best things in the world.
Then we will ignore other things that we should do, such as friendship, studies and others.

Besides that, when a person desperate to maintain a relationship,
they may not think much about their action.
A girl may left the house and go live with her so call 'hubby' because she may think it is romantic.
A guy may borrow money from friends in order to buy things to his so call 'wife' because he want to show his man's power.
Thus, many social problem may happened.

An example from my friend, she starts a relationship with a boy younger than him.
She said he is caring because he will call her every night.
But, after a few months, he ask her to help him do reload.
So, that girl helps him to reload.
Not long after that, every month, he will ask her to help him pay his telephone bills.
After they have been together for 2 years, one month, the girl stop helping him to reload.
Then, he send a message to her saying that:" if you don't help me to reload, then I wont sms you anymore."
When I heard about that, I stunned there. How dare he say that to her? He must know that he is a guy. He is asking money from a girl! The things that I feel funny is that they are able to maintain their relationship for 2 years!
I think my friend sure "invest" quite alot of money on him.

There are quite a lot of example...but I am lazy to write out so many bad story.
Guys nowadays had changed...they become more independent, softbone, thick face ...
I really hope that my friend can find a better 1.
If I met that guy...sure I will kick him out!

Haha...friends, remember that, nothing is more important than your family members.
guys and girls' love is nothing...papa mama love is everything !

Appreciate what you have now...do not try to hurt your family members and friends because of LOVE too...

Lastly, Hope Ms. Susan wont see this post !....hahaha

恶作剧之吻

2009-08-05T10:25:00.000-07:00

看了这部电影，我领悟到这世上天才与蠢才并没差别，
大家都有自己的梦想与执着的地方，
直树与湘琴真的经过好多的风风雨雨，
但凭着两人的努力，坚持不懈的精神，
他们终于得到自己的幸福。

每个人都应该有梦想，
为了梦想，我们必须要付出。
但有付出并不一定有收成。
一次有一次的失败与挫折，
也不一定会把人打败。
只有不断的努力，
我们才能达到我们的梦想。

加油吧！湘琴的精神将永远陪着我！
我将会不断的向高难度的问题挑战！
朝着梦想不断前进！

古代女人 vs 现代女人

2009-06-08T06:41:00.000-07:00

古代女人：
1）从小到大都得听从别人(父母，丈夫，公婆，兄长）的话
2）一个完整的女人就一定要结婚，生孩子。
3）女人只能拥有一个丈夫。
4）女人不能抛头露面。因此，丈夫吃饭你就吃饭，丈夫吃粥你就吃粥。
5）为人妻子的女人出外工作是丈夫的耻辱。

现代女人：
1）拥有自己的发言权，但为了男人也得听话。
2）结婚，生子并不是必要的。
3）一个女人能有几个男友，几个丈夫。
4）女人能除外工作，赚钱补贴家用。
5）妻子的成功也是丈夫的光荣。因此，女人工作就成了一种家常便饭。

虽然女人可说是拥有了自己的权利，自卫与生存的能力，
但男人却失去了以往的志气，风度，雄心。
现代的年轻男人开始呆在家照顾孩子，妻子却出外工作。
男人的雄心在哪？
为何男人变得没有愿望，没有拼搏的精神了呢？
他们也开始要求与女人一样的权利，
他们开始希望能够得到别人的庇护而不是别人的支持。
这世界变了，
是谁的错？

好男人 vs 烂男人

2009-06-08T06:32:00.000-07:00

我心目中的好男人应该：
1）体贴
2）大方
3）有智慧
4）成熟与稳重
5）受欢迎

我心中的烂男人应该：
1）止想性
2）斤斤计较
3）处处都想占人便宜
4）幼稚
5）没主见

这只是一部分，如果朋友们有其他好男人与烂男人的特点要补充，请不要不好意识。

迷恋结束了

2009-05-10T18:26:00.000-07:00

小时候总是不停的迷恋着英俊，聪明的男生，
每天就像活在梦幻世界里，
多么的开心，甜蜜，
王子会把灰姑娘变成公主，
我也能因为认识一个聪明的 “王子” 而变聪明。

自从看见了爱情，
我才发现，
迷恋是多么的无知，无聊，
爱情是需要付出的，
时间，金钱，力气，
都是需要付出的。

人生，
有人为了喜欢的人而牺牲梦想，兴趣，家人。。。
有人为了梦想，兴趣，家人。。。而牺牲爱情，
人生，
是非常残酷的，
因为我们常常都要做选择，
人，
生出来就是要不停的做选择才能生活，
如果不能活，
那就只有死路一条。

所以，
我选择靠自己，
不妄想靠别人，
迷恋就从止结束了！

Who Moved My Cheese!

2009-05-01T00:12:00.001-07:00

After reading "Who moved my cheese" for the first time, I realised I am the Haw. When changes happened, I cannot adapt to it. I need times to think back. When I cannot adapt to the changes, I may "hems and haws", but after a few days, weeks or months, I am able to laugh at my fear of change. I need to see the real situation. Why I need to see the real situation? Some people may advice me not to think back of what had happened and prepare to face other problem. In my opinion, you yourself may forget the incident but others may not. After we know the real situation then only we know how to adjust. Although haw is a little bit late in doing changes, he changed at the end. After he changed, he finally get what he want. Hem does not change and he starts to blame people until haw had find a new station which has a lot of cheese. We do not know what will happen to Hem at the end of the story, but in my opinion, stuborn people will never change. Maybe they just do not know that they had done something wrong.

In conclusion, I may not sense the changes as fast as Sniff and scurries into action quickly when changes happened, but I will accept the change.

隐瞒

2009-04-27T05:19:00.001-07:00

天助我也！！！
我看清了，摸清了，也想通了。
幸好我早发现，
不然，所有人将被埋在谷里。

为何，他要隐瞒？
是真隐瞒还是假隐瞒？
不想被人知道，
为何要放照片呢？

为何，他要隐瞒？
是想隐瞒一个人，
还是全世界？

为何，他要隐瞒？
是为了保住自己的名声，
还是不想让某某人伤心？

为何，他要隐瞒？
是想隐瞒自己的弱点，
还是他正隐瞒着某某人？

每个人都会有自己不想告人的秘密，
只有它没伤害到别人那就好了。

荒谬的故事

2009-04-27T05:19:00.000-07:00

一天前，说着我爱她（1），
第二天，说着我爱她（2），
人生就是那么荒谬！

今天，活生生的与你逛街，
明天，可能就从止消失在你眼中。
为何人生总是难以捉摸？

今天他向别人说他与她（1）相处了 1 年 7 个月 19 天又几秒，
多么多么的不舍，
第二天却。。。
静静的，开始找新目标，
不到一个星期，就与2号开始了。。。
既然开始了，
又想隐瞒别人多一个月。
纸是包不了火的，
越想隐瞒，
越容易被发现。
所以，
人生短短几十年，
应该坦诚的对待每一个人，
珍惜生命里关心，在乎与重视你的人，
以免他们渐渐的疏远你，放弃你。

爱情是盲目的，
是不能用时间与金钱来衡量的，
只有一段坦诚的爱，
才能长久。。。

祝天下的人能坦诚的对待每一件事。

* 止故事只是我对一个真实故事的分析。并没有意识伤害别人。

Beautiful Story

2009-04-22T05:58:00.000-07:00

1 September 2007, the story starts...
3 something am, through the power of webcam and online system,
he confess to me...
Afternoon, DP, first day dating...
Although it was a 4 peoples gathering, but it was fund and lovely.
On that day, something shocking happened.
My parents go and wait for me at McDonalds without my knowing.
That is the first time I bring someone go meet my family members.
That is the beginning of the story...but

Days past...months past...year past...

Everything had become a story...

No need to feel sad, no need to feel dissapointed,

Because there is another start for me...

A more stable friendship will appear in my eyes.

A fun life is waiting for me and my friends to walk past.

Work hard for your future and get a better life before you think of finding a love one

忙与盲

2009-03-09T05:48:00.000-07:00

学生，为了课业而忙，
家长，为了孩子的生活也忙的快透不过气，
老师，为了学校的课业目标而忙，
老板，为了赚钱而忙，
议员们，为人民而忙，
总之， “忙”字真的很难离开我们。

读书读累了，就像盲了，
为孩子，奔坡与劳累的工作，
并忘了自己生活的意义，
也盲了。。。
老师也被繁重的压力压盲了，
老板们，被钱蒙了双眼，
也盲了。。。
议员们，每天吵吵闹闹，
忙着为人民争取所谓的‘权利’，
却忘了，盲目的争取是不会带来什么好结果，
他们也盲了。

当我们被繁重的工作量，
乱七八糟的人事关系压得喘不过气时，
记得，停下脚步，
像我一样，
写写blog，
说点无聊的东西
或写写平时所想的东西
来发泄发泄一下吧！

爱惜自己。。。关心别人

5th Dec...

2008-12-05T07:36:00.000-08:00

I am serious!! I am going to add curry powder to my drinks!

Today is a memorable day. I spent my time with quite a lot of people and it makes me feel really nice. I celebrated my friend's birthday on today, met my secondary school's classmate and my old friend. It is nice to spend time with friends and enjoy our life by chit chatting.

Cake from Bread Station in Bukit Beruang !
It is cute and nice to eat !... ... ... ^_^

At 12 pm... I go walk walk around Bukit Beruang and buy cakes for my friend. After buying cakes, my friend and me to US pizza and meet my brother. This is sure my treat! We, 3 people enjoying our lunch there. After that, I went Jusco. JUSCO is a nice place to shop. I went there and help my mum to buy something. Then, who knows, I met a secondary school's classmate.

He really looks hungry..haha or maybe because today is my treat....he want to finish all! : p

1 large pizza and 1 regular pizza just for 3 of us !!!

Today is really a good day. At night, an old friend call me and we have a good talk too. Today is really nice. The weather is quite good too. Although, there is a rain at 11 am, it still did not spoil my mood to go out. In our life, there will be good and bad things. In the morning, I am quite blur until I bring the wrong notes to class. I was blur in that tutorial class. OMG...WASTING. Anyway, it still nice.

Our life time is not long. We must appreciate every second that God gives to us.

^^...tong tong ...^^

PAID SURVEY TEST

2008-11-29T19:20:00.000-08:00

I have been trying quite a lot of online survey test and until now, but I did not gain any money. Many people do not trust those advertisement and just ignore it. The reason why I try is because I think it is not harmful if i give them my email address and my house address. If the registration involve my IC no or my account no then I will avoid it. As what people said, curiosity kills the cat. I worry that something bad will happen on me if i join the test but I can stop myself to have a try.

I feel curious about all those take paid online survey test. I wonder whether it is true that people will gain money through answering survey question or give opinion. After trying a few test. I realise it is not true that doing survey online wont give you anything. It will waste your time or sometimes it may harm you. For example, your email account may hack by others, your computer may get virus and many many more.

If there is someone who got the same problem as me, feel free to left a comment.

Bad luck...

2008-11-24T08:10:00.001-08:00

On 24th Nov 2004 ...
First BAD thing
On the way to campus, I met a crazy people who keep on looking at me and do some scary movement. I was quite scare but I just pretend nothing happend, pretend that I am looking at other things and ran away.

Second BAD thing
When I reach campus, it is about 10 minutes before my class begin. I just go near to the lecture room and peep whether got class in that lecture room or not? Then the lecture in that class come out and scold me and ask me to shut up. I am quite "syok" at that time cause I did not talk to anybody but those peoples beside me is talking and making noise. I stand there and look at the lecturer for a few second then I decide not to scold the lecturer. I just tell her i will ask those people to keep queit. I am really angry at that time, but I still keep myself cool and try to think some way to face those kind of lecturer. Although that incident already happened, I still think that we must always learn from mistake...maybe next time i should really waste the lecturer's time and tell her everything that had happened. But, if i told the lecturer the real things, she may not listen to me or maybe those group of people may feel that I am telling the lecturer that they are busy. Really bad luck, as what I know, I am just a person who is passing by.

Third thing
Lunch Hour
I put my notes book on the chair in the canteen, then I go and buy some food for my lunch. When I come back, a group of stupid people took my book and put somewhere else, then they sit on the place where I booked. I really feel frustrated because the whole day I am facing those bad things. I took the book and go to the place where near to them and sit down BECAUSE I would like to show them that I am angry with their attitude. How can you remove people's things without asking.

Fourth thing
After I took my lunch and go bank to bank in some money. I go back to the place where I put my bag- Library. When I reach there, I realise that people throw my bag on the floor and then put his/her bag in the cabinet where I put my bag. OMG...what is happening to me?...Is there a curse?

Lastly ...I do hope that no more bad things happend on me and hope that nobody will be as 'lucky' as me ...

About Me !!!

2008-11-19T05:57:00.000-08:00

This is my first time ...

First time to put on some lipstick...

HAHA....I hope I didn't look funny

Our life is all about trying and experiencing. So, when you get a chance to try something don't worry to try!!! As what people says, low risk low return; high risk high return and ....No RISK No RETURN!

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This is my first time writing a blog. I can feel that this is a place for me to express my opinion and write about my life. In our life, there are many things come and go ....you can have a good friend for now, but in the next second, he or she may become your enemy. There are many things that I would like to written down. I would like to record down all the happy things and also the sad things that happened.

Sweet memories

2008-06-14T06:40:00.000-07:00

1 st June 2008 ...Big day for POPO( grandma), my dad's mum...In that night, the whole family will celebrate popo's 80 years old birthday at Saloma Bistro. Before we go to that bistro, popo must wear something nice first.

This is how she looks like.

Is she looks like a 80 years old lady?